Today, one of Vernon’s close friends, Chris Owen, played a little improvisational guitar to help lure him back to us with some good vibrations. He seemed to really wake up to it, even responding with some body movement (typically shoulder shrugs, which seem to control the ‘hand-squeezes’ we have been getting from him.) These movements are a big deal for him because any kind of physical reaction is exhausting…sometimes he will fall back to sleep after just a couple of minutes of just keeping his eyes open. Anyway, it is said that music brings healing, and though I have been playing recorded music in the room for him, the strumming of a real instrument from a good friend was balm to his soul…and mine. Thanks for your active friendship, Chris, and for offering up your musical gifts as well.
Another high point today is that I saw Kathleen, the Spiritual Care worker, who was our hospital guide the night of the accident. I hadn’t seen her since that night, exactly one month ago, May 23rd. Apparently she roams the hospital halls late at night because, in her words, she “doesn’t like authority.” How perfect: just Vernon’s kind of gal. She told me she comes by his room and prays for him on her nightly walks. She also said that that his wall filled with pictures and cards and the stream of friends coming in to see him makes it a positive place for not just his own healing but also for the healers. So please keep sending in the love, it is changing his environment.
Here is Kathleen, our night angel since Day One.
As for today’s more clinical update, without going into too much detail, I saw two new doctors today I hadn’t met before. One is testing his blood for infections, which seem to be raising their nasty heads. Par for the course, apparently…it’s a matter of changing antibiotics. And the other will be doing an upper endoscopy (a camera sent into the stomach) to check for bleeding, because there has been some blood loss. At the moment she can’t go through the mouth because Vernon’s jaw is wired tight. However because of this necessary procedure, Dr. Cummings, the Oral Surgeon, will take the wires out a week earlier than planned. This may actually be a blessing in disguise as Vernon will have less uncomfortable obstructions deal with as he comes back to waking life.
As always, I am in awe of the detailed care Vernon is getting. I wonder if he isn’t in the best hospital in the world. It certainly has my vote!
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always look forward to your beautifully worded updates and today’s certainly was wonderful to read. continued prayers…
I love this post. Was thinking today about art therapy – will be fascinating to know eventually what Vernon “remembers” – will he remember any of this or will he have a familiar feeling leftover from this shared creative outpouring on his behalf. Thank you for taking the time to post. Hugs
Love hanging out with the Justine Minis at pool n park . What an amazing girl! She even took a pool princess nap:-)
Wishing there was something I could actually do…a need to be met…something. Praying…that happens without mention. Let me know if I can serve you in any way.
good vibrations indeed allison … love you xx hugs to you , justine and vern xx
I loved hearing about Vernon’s night angel…the special care from her. And sweet Chris coming to play for Vernon…
Ill be praying for Vernon for clean blood -for no more problems…thinking about the blood of the Lamb…I love you Vernon and Allison
Funny, the pictures show ordinary people, but I see super heroes. Looking forward to meeting Chris. . . and Kathleen. Prayers for you all!
Still very grateful to hear about the progress and that there is progress. Hugs!
Chris is very gifted at ushering in the Holy Spirit and Healer. Spiritual nourishment for Vernon ‘s mind, body and spirit.
Praying for full recovery and healing for Vernon and peace and comfort for Alli.
“Do It Again Jesus”
I came across this site on my FB page. I saw the posts several times before opening because I thought my FB friend was posting about a new show on TV. I dont lnow why but I finally opened this site and was drawn in. I feel like I’m reading an incredible book that I can’t put down. I now think about this “Vernon” randomly several times throughout my day. I can’t drive near or thru San Clemente without visions of what could have happened to Vernon on that horrible day.
Vernon’s “book” is now part of my daily read and as with all good books I don’t want it to end….
Hi Valerie, nice to meet you. To think you thought these links were for a TV show made me giggle! Sometimes it feels we are in a tv show, especially since the doctors and nurses are all so good looking and sharp! 🙂
All of the best. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family!
Hi Allison, I took a few workshops late February/May with your Dad.
It was a perfect respite from the harsh Indiana Winter! I remember meeting you and seeing your little girl, very briefly. I stayed with my Aunt in San Clemente, and she and I had wondered one evening if Kathleen was still involved with her ministry at the Hospital. Over ten years ago she was there for my Aunt during my Uncle’s long, arduous hospital stay. I was there and was blessed to meet her. It seems that she hasn’t changed, and quietly knows where her True Authority comes from. I remember her being a wonderful advocate, when needed, between us and the Doctors .We thought she was an Angel too! You are remembered in my prayers often.
I think I love Kathleen! So glad she is there to pray for Vernon at night.