I went to the Kindred hospital in Brea (Vern’s new home) hoping to spend a little quality time with him or at least get to see if his physical therapy had begun, but I showed up right when his 3-hour dialysis session had started. So much for watching new progress. There was certainly a lot of activity around him though: nurses taking blood, x-rays, bringing me paperwork to sign…and the aforementioned dialysis.
Goodbye, quiet privacy of the Hospital Stroke Unit. Here is a picture of Vernon’s new room. (I have blurred out his elderly room-mate’s face in the background.) If the dialysis machine wasn’t quite so big, the curtain might be drawn. Still, I’m happy to give up privacy in exchange for action and momentum.
As you can see, there isn’t a lot of wall space here, but I have already started taping photos of the family up in the space we have available. I don’t think they know quite how capable I am of using up tape and space…I’ll do a little at a time as not to alarm the locals that I might be taking over.
I have requested that Vernon’s M-W-F dialysis sessions be moved to the afternoons so that the PT and OT can work with him in the mornings. I would really like to watch the sessions if I can’t actually be a part of them. At least I will be learning ways to help exercise him on my own as his recovery continues. And I’ll be able to see improvements. Admittedly, it is kind of sad to drive all that way each day and not have anything new to witness.
Everyone there has been very friendly and encouraging so far. From what I can tell, they will try to work with my scheduling requests, especially as he is one of their younger patients —who has a relatively young family desperate to get him home. (It’s nice to be considered young again…an unexpected perk in this whole experience!)
My mom and dad visited Vernon yesterday, and my dad wrote about the visit on his own blog this morning. Please check out BLANK SLATE for this story as well as other wise and well-written musings on life in general.
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Great to hear that youre on the move with the tape like some new type of super hero with sticky powers. No, they are just not aware of what might be hitting them:)
In only a week were there. Maki is wondering what films might be on during the flight, but he will sleep mostly I bet.
Lots of love
I need a costume, don’t you think? 🙂
Perfect design-job for Maki. His favourite program is FACE OFF
That’s great that you are being proactive about his scheduling. I think that therapy in the morning is not only better with you there but he will be stronger and more focused in the morning. After therapy he’ll be ready for resting/dialysis. ( :
I hope they are able to make the dialysis schedule work out to be in the afternoons so he can have productive therapy those days. Way to go being proactive and clearly communicating for him; your continual input can really help his rehab recovery because you know him better than anyone! Keep up the great work being his advocate and voice!
“I’m happy to give up privacy in exchange for action and momentum.” reminds me of giving birth 😉 yay for action and momentum! daily following his progress and praying continually
Hhahah! Wendy! That’s so funny…and so true!