Vernon continues to improve in tiny but noticeable steps. Today I talked to him more about the accident and what had happened, though I’m not sure how much he can remember or was able to understand. His ‘hand squeezes’ (mostly from the upper arm because his fingers still have so little grasp) became especially strong when I hugged his waist and talked about our relationship and the children. This was slightly awkward as I had to avoid various tubes, stitches, plates, and bandages, but I was amazed how well he responded to more touch. The nurse was pleased with this because he hadn’t much reaction from him earlier in the day. Having the familiar nearby will obviously be big for Vernon in this phase.
We will hope for more signs of improvement tomorrow.
In the meantime, I’ll share a picture from his wall…actually window, as we have run out of room on the wall.
This is my attempt at illustrating part of an Alder tree. Vernon’s name literally means “Alder Grove.” He had often told me that in the past, but I didn’t see the significance of it till now. I recently read that Alder trees are known for their resilience and readiness to grow back after fire. Alders grow in large groves and have a deep network of strong roots. How amazing it is to think in that Vernon is healing, not just on his own, and not just due to the hospital care, but also because he is connected under the surface to a greater network of people who are loving him back into the grove, tall and strong.
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Vernon had no idea of the “deep network of strong roots” surrounding him. He will soon, Lord willing, and he will never be the same! xx
So good…praying-happy. Love Vernon love you
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This blog of yours is really an amazing thing, Allison. You share so much and it is so obviously coming from your most genuine and immediate self with nothing hidden. It really helps us to stay close and rally around you day by day. Great to read of your progress. Blessings to you and Vernon and Justine and Maki.
as always Allison your writing touches my heart … wonderful to read vern is responding to you, he needs you with him to grow ..trees need sunshine , water, tenderness and love..and (so i believe) plants love someone to talk to them. Vern had a thing about trees, and dreamed one day of planting a wood, i have one of his trees planted from seed in my garden, as do mum and dad ….not sure what it is , i must look that up x love always to you, justine, maki and a hug to vern from me xx
Thanks Vanessa! Make sure you keep talking to Veronica too! Guess you both have that deep understanding of our greener friends. Xoxox
It is so wonderful that you and Vernon are now communicating and making a connection. Continued prayers and love to you both.
Such fantastic news, I’ve been reading your daily updates and am inspired by your constant dedication to firstly Vernon, no surprise there, but to keeping everyone involved with updates on the whole family. You really do live up to your Skype name
‘Wunderali’.
You are constantly in our thoughts. Much love always. Xx
We are following your updates from New Zealand, Maki just read the latest. Love your painting of the tree. We have been painting today. Going to get some canvases for Maki. Thinking of you. Lots of love from Synnøve og Maki.
wonderful news! the prayers continue…
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got to get the update first thing in
the morning…thank you ali…love
Allison, your writing and story telling is beautiful. It’s great to read of Vernon’s improvements. Still thinking positively for his full recovery. I’m going to go hug my husband and daughter now. 🙂